I agreed to meet the late-comer at the gym at his chosen time of 2:15pm.
These days, it's always the late-comer who decides on what time and which gym we'll visit. But luckily, it's a place near my neighbourhood this time. I estimated a journey time of 30 minutes, but a happy confluence of buses take me there 10 minutes early. I occupy the extra time by doing some stretching.
10 minutes later, I'm done, but there's no sign of the late-comer. No new messages either.
So I make a somewhat controversial decision. I will only wait 10 minutes. Why 10 minutes? I have no idea. It's not like I've done such a thing before, after all. Maybe an imaginary survey was conducted among residents of my head space in a split second and 10 minutes was the result.
When time was up, I packed up my bag and headed to the bus stop. The bus was already in sight.
I send the late-comer a message at about 2:30pm: I got tired of waiting and went home.
He replied: I'm already here. Are you coming or not?
I rolled my eyes. No.
He said: You could've just warmed up first.
I'm not sure what an appropriate response to this is. There are various options.
Option A is my initial reaction. Rather than telling me what to do, why don't you focus on yourself and be on time?
Option B may be a completely alien concept. And you could've said, 'Sorry, I'm going to be late.'
Option C may fly way above his head. So basically, it's my duty to wait and your prerogative to keep wasting my time?
Option D is sarcastically factual. I arrived early and already warmed up by the appointed time. Maybe you should try it too.
Option E is vindictive. Serves you right.
Option F is confrontational. Why should I?
A friend who heard the story said, I hope the fact that you left teaches him a lesson.
I'm not an optimist though. And why bother? I'm just going to go to gym with other people.
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